You are not alone.

Welcome to AbusedMen Dot Org. I created this site out of frustration with the existing system, in which there continue to be many – and untold – numbers of male victims of intimate partner violence with nowhere to go for help. In some ways, I have still not found a way to remedy the effects of having survived my own experience, even though I left my abuser in 2005. Healing can be a long journey, but it is certainly not impossible or hopeless.

I hope this site helps those seeking answers.

Before you can safely look for help, you need to be at a safe distance from your abuser. If you are not, please find a public library, visit a trusted friend, or make sure your abuser is not home when doing an online search for help. You should also clear your browser’s history and cache when you are done, if you share a computer with your abusive partner.

To navigate, click the circle with the four squares to see the main menu, or the circle with the menu list icon to see archives, RSS feeds, and other sidebar items.